Deviance FemDom Academy Presents:

Mistress Jeslyn

Jeslyn (she/her) is a pansexual, polyamorous alpha femme with 25+ years in kink, moving through roles as an impact bottom, dominant masochist, and service Domme. Born and raised in the foothills of North Carolina, she grew up fascinated by decorative daggers and self-defense knives, began experimenting with non-abrasive “knife massages” in 1997, and had her first pickup-play experience with a Domme at StellarCon in 1998. She earned a BFA in advertising photography and spent 15 years in New York City as a fashion photographer before shifting into education and relocating her studio to the Tampa Bay area in 2019.

Today, Jeslyn serves on the Dungeon Monitoring Crew at conventions and local venues—including Deviance—helping cultivate safer, welcoming play spaces. A longtime professional photographer (boudoir, fashion, portraits) and kink/intimacy coach, she blends visual artistry, body awareness, and consent-forward pedagogy to help folks build skills with confidence

Class:

Impact & Sensation Play for Pleasure
A tour of impact and sensation play that centers negotiation, anatomy, and technique. We’ll explore floggers, paddles, crops, whips, and textured implements—plus spikes, claws, feathers, and fur—to create scenes that range from playful to intense, always with informed consent and safety at the core. Expect live demo with Q&A and practical, budget-friendly tips.

You’ll Learn

  • Negotiation basics: scene intent, questions to ask, safewords/signals, and in-scene check-ins

  • Anatomy 101 for impact: green/yellow/red zones, common mistakes, and safer targeting

  • Warm-ups and progressive intensity: pacing, rhythm, and breathing to manage endorphins

  • Technique: strike types, timing, angles, stance, and reading body language in real time

  • Tool selection: stingy vs. thuddy, paddles vs. hands, wood/leather/silicone/rubber—matching tools to goals

  • Working with sensitive areas (e.g., breasts/nipples and other small zones) using risk-aware methods

  • Building a starter kit on a budget: DIY options and safe household substitutes

  • Sensation layering: spikes, claws, feathers, and fur for contrast before/after impact

  • Aftercare that actually works: cooldown, subspace awareness, and navigating sub-drop

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