FAQ’s

🏳️‍🌈 General Information

New here? Start here! Learn who we are, where we came from, and what you can expect when you walk through our doors.

  • Deviance is Tampa Bay’s community-first BDSM and kink center with over 5,000 sq. ft. of safe space for play, education, and connection. We welcome people of all genders, orientations, races, religions, abilities, and body types.

  • To nurture a safe, affirming, and accessible space for all, powered by community love, volunteer energy, and a deep commitment to consent and inclusivity.

  • 12850 91st St #1207, Largo, FL 33773.

  • Friday & Saturday nights from 8PM to 2AM for regular play events, with special events, classes, and groups throughout the week.

👋 For Newcomers

Everyone starts somewhere — and we know the first step can feel intimidating. Here’s how we make it easier to begin your journey at Deviance.

    • A friendly check-in and orientation tour.

    • Access to negotiation stations and wristbands to help communicate your interest (or preference to observe only).

    • A mix of play, socializing, and learning — but no play is ever guaranteed. Many people attend just to watch, learn, and connect.

  • Yes! Observing is a normal and welcome way to get comfortable. You’ll never be pressured to play.

    • BDSM Gateway – a free intro to BDSM, dungeon etiquette, and consent (with tour).

    • Munches & Discussion Groups – casual meetups like book club, Dom/Sub/Switch roundtables, or Trans Support Meetups.

    • Rope Basics and other beginner-friendly workshops.

    Click here to see our full Events Calendar

  • We can’t pair you with a buddy, but you’re encouraged to talk with volunteers and event hosts. Many people arrive solo — you won’t be alone in that.

🎟️ Membership & Tickets

Membership helps keep our community thriving. Here’s what it means to be a “Deviant” and how to get involved.

  • Not always. Classes, munches, and some events are open to everyone 18+. Members-only events include dungeon play parties and select academies.

  • Click here to fill out the application online, then pay either online or at the club. Memberships are available monthly or annually.

  • Annual Membership: $40

    Monthly Membership: $5

    Fri/Sat Open Dungeon: $25

    Variable pricing for special events

  • Yes — tickets are often available at the door, and you can pay for your membership onsite after completing the application and waiver.

    Note: No matter how you elect to pay for becoming a member, you will have to fill out the new member application online before we can get you started.

  • Yes. All events and memberships are strictly 18+ with a valid physical photo ID (no digital IDs).

🎭 Events & Education

From casual meetups to full-scale play parties, Deviance offers a wide spectrum of events designed to educate, connect, and celebrate kink in all its forms.

    • Play parties (FemDom Fridays, TNG 18–35, open dungeon nights)

    • Educational classes (rope, bootblacking, yoga for kinky bodies)

    • Academies (like FemDom Academy)

    • Roundtables & discussion groups (D/s/Switch, book club, Trans Support, recovery groups)

    • Munches (casual community gatherings)

    Click here to see our full calendar of events

  • Some events (like academies) require advance tickets; many are free or donation-based. Others (like BDSM Gateway) are open — no sign-up required. Always check the event listing.

  • Yes! If you’d like to teach, lead, or host, click here to submit a proposal through our Presenter/Host sign-up.

⚖️ Play, Consent & Safety

Consent is our foundation. Every rule in our dungeon exists to keep you and your partners safe while honoring mutual respect.

  • Consent is the foundation of our community. Always ask before touching anyone or their belongings. “No” is a complete sentence. Violations WILL result in removal and bans.

    See our Club Rules for full details

  • To ensure safety and consent, Deviance is a sober space. Anyone under the influence will be asked to leave.

  • No: sex of any kind(penetration, oral, masturbation), unsafe edge play, firearms, blood/urine/feces/vomit, or professional/paid scenes.

    See our Club Rules for full details

🙌 Volunteering

Deviance is powered by the love and labor of volunteers. If you’ve ever wanted to give back, this is your chance.

  • Yes — Deviance thrives on volunteer energy! Roles include Dungeon Monitors, Ambassadors, Bellhops, Minions, and more.

    Sign Up to volunteer here!

  • Free event admission for your shift.

    • Volunteer-only play parties (with guests).

    • Free membership renewal with regular service.

    • Early dungeon access and discounts on merch.

    • Free entry on nights volunteering

    Click here to see full details

  • Some roles (like Dungeon Monitors) require training and background checks. Others are open to anyone ready to give back.

🔑 Rentals

Want a more private experience? You can rent the space for your own small gathering or special occasion.

  • Yes. Options include shared space, private rentals, or full facility use. Rentals are available outside event hours with advance booking.

    Click here to see full details about our Dungeon Rentals

  • All participants must pass the RSO (registered sex offenders directory) check and follow club rules.