Stone Soup Munch
Feb
4

Stone Soup Munch

Start the Month off Right with the Stone Soup Munch at Deviance! This is a non-play event designed to help you ease into the new month and explore our space in a safe, relaxed, no-pressure environment. No Membership Required.

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Central Florida Transgender Support Meet Up
Feb
5

Central Florida Transgender Support Meet Up

This is a FREE non-play support meet up. No Membership Required (donations to Deviance Tampa Bay are appreciated)

18+ | Valid ID Required

Deviance Tampa Bay warmly welcomes:

Our monthly Central Florida Transgender Support meet up, hosted by Cami_da_fae at Deviance!

All flavors welcome! NB, GF, MTF, FTM, and any we may have missed mentioning. The goal of this group is to provide a safe place where we can meet and share some positive stories and news, as well as talk about ways to keep ourselves safe in this world of rising transphobia and fear mongering.

We'll provide some light refreshments, but we encourage you to bring potluck style dishes to share as well.

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BDSM Gateway
Feb
6

BDSM Gateway

This is a non-play event designed to help you ease into BDSM and explore our space in a safe, relaxed, no-pressure environment. No Membership Required.

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Shadows & Shutters
Feb
7

Shadows & Shutters

Shadows & Shutters is our monthly, non-play photography night at Deviance: a space to experiment, collaborate, and create striking images together. This is a Deviance members-only event and strictly non-play: we are here for art, consent, and community.

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Saturday BIRTHDAY Dungeon Party
Feb
7

Saturday BIRTHDAY Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Game Night in The Manor
Feb
9

Game Night in The Manor

Join us at Deviance Manor for a fun-filled Game Night! This is the perfect opportunity to relax, connect, and enjoy a variety of games in a warm, welcoming environment.

Whether you're a trivia buff, a card game enthusiast, or just looking for a casual night out with great company, there's something here for everyone.


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FemDom Friday Dungeon Party
Feb
13

FemDom Friday Dungeon Party

Leave the stress of your day behind and slide into a world where women rule the night. FemDom Fridays are for the Ladies and the submissives who love them. Female presenting tops and dominants, join us in the Dungeon for an evening of worship and admiration. Submissives? Come sink into glorious service and bask in unique energy.

Submissives... show up to show out.! Impressive our FemDoms with your best threads!

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Friday Play Party in The Manor
Feb
13

Friday Play Party in The Manor

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Dom, sub, S/switch Roundtables
Feb
14

Dom, sub, S/switch Roundtables

Join us for an afternoon of open discussion, shared experiences, and community connection at our Dominant, submissive, and S/switch Roundtables. These guided conversations provide a space for individuals to explore their roles, ask questions, and engage with others in a supportive and educational environment.

Whether you’re experienced or new to the lifestyle, these roundtables offer valuable insight and the opportunity to learn from diverse perspectives.

No Membership Required.

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Open Rope Collab
Feb
15

Open Rope Collab

Open Rope Lab at Deviance Tampa Bay: a monthly assisted practice + skill share for all skill levels, bodies, and humans. Bring your rope goals, troubleshoot ties, get guidance, and connect with community in a consent-first space. Every 3rd Sunday, 2–5 PM. Hosted by Stumpp.

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Dungeons & Dragons & Deviance
Feb
16

Dungeons & Dragons & Deviance

*NOTE: Please arrive by 8:15PM for check in, hard start time is 8:30PM

Roll for initiative and pull up a chair — Deviance is kicking off a new kind of gathering: D&D&D. This is our take on a classic game night, where we trade floggers for fantasy and explore the worlds of dice, dragons, and imagination together.

Get Tickets Here!

What to Expect

  • One-shot D&D campaigns run by welcoming Dungeon Masters — no homework, no long commitments.

  • Beginner-friendly play with rules explained on the spot. Never rolled a d20 before? We’ve got you.

  • Casual, social atmosphere — a chance to meet fellow nerds, kinksters, and community members in a relaxed setting.

  • Snacks and drinks welcome (non-alcoholic).

What to Bring

  • Dice, if you have them (we’ll have extras).

  • A sense of adventure.

  • Street-legal attire (this is a clothed event).

Notes

  • This is strictly a tabletop game night — no kink play for this one. We’ll keep that twist in our back pocket for the future.

  • This event is open to everyone, no membership required. (18+).

  • Seating is limited, so RSVP early to secure your spot at the table.

Tickets / Entry: Single Tickets: $10

Bring a friend: $15

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Friday Deviance Dungeon Party
Feb
20

Friday Deviance Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Dungeon Monitor (DM) Training by Miki Rei
Feb
21

Dungeon Monitor (DM) Training by Miki Rei

This is a non-play educational event. No Membership Required.

(Note: Current Deviance Tampa Bay volunteers and DMs attend for free as part of our volunteer perks)

Deviance is hosting our quarterly refresher and new Dungeon Monitor (DM) Training. This training will be taught by our Operations Manager, @Miki_Rei herself.

Buy Tickets Online Here

Dungeon Monitors help to ensure that dungeon rules and safety procedures are followed at play parties. If you host private play parties, hope to volunteer as a DM at an event or venue in the future, or just want to be educated on this important topic, please join us!


- Must be 18+ to attend and bring a valid government-issued photo ID with a date of birth on it. Digital representations will not be accepted. Attendees will be screened through the USDOJ national database of registered sex offenders.

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Deviance Big Screen Night
Feb
22

Deviance Big Screen Night

Slip into your favorite PJs and settle into The Manor, where we’ll lay out floor mats for comfy seating. Bring what makes you cozy—blankets, cushions, pillows, stuffies—and build your perfect little nest. We’re keeping the movie a surprise; come for the community vibes and the popcorn aroma drifting in from the lobby.

Click here for tickets!

Concessions: The lobby stand will have fresh popcorn, non-alcoholic drinks, and snacks at accessible prices.

Dress Code Pajamas and comfy wear encouraged; street wear is fine. Nudity is not allowed at this event.

This is a non-play event. No membership required.

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Littles Go to the DARK Side
Feb
27

Littles Go to the DARK Side

Littles Go to the DARK Side: A Dark AgePlay Play Party at Deviance

This isn’t your average cute & cuddly Littles night.

Littles Go to the DARK Side is a crossover evening where Littles, middles, and their Caregivers get to lean into Dark AgePlay: cozy headspace + serious structure + impact, rope, discipline, and rules.

Think: Ruffles, onesies, overalls, stuffies everywhere… mixed with canes, crops, rope, wax, discipline, rules, and all the delicious, consensual DARK fun Littles and Caregivers can handle.

This event is about play, creativity, structure, discipline, connection, and safe nurturing regressionnot sex.

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Friday Deviance Dungeon Party
Feb
27

Friday Deviance Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Saturday Dungeon Party
Feb
28

Saturday Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, the Manor provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.

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Stone Soup Munch
Mar
4

Stone Soup Munch

Start the Month off Right with the Stone Soup Munch at Deviance! This is a non-play event designed to help you ease into the new month and explore our space in a safe, relaxed, no-pressure environment. No Membership Required.

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Central Florida Transgender Support Meet Up
Mar
5

Central Florida Transgender Support Meet Up

This is a FREE non-play support meet up. No Membership Required (donations to Deviance Tampa Bay are appreciated)

18+ | Valid ID Required

Deviance Tampa Bay warmly welcomes:

Our monthly Central Florida Transgender Support meet up, hosted by Cami_da_fae at Deviance!

All flavors welcome! NB, GF, MTF, FTM, and any we may have missed mentioning. The goal of this group is to provide a safe place where we can meet and share some positive stories and news, as well as talk about ways to keep ourselves safe in this world of rising transphobia and fear mongering.

We'll provide some light refreshments, but we encourage you to bring potluck style dishes to share as well.

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BDSM Gateway
Mar
6

BDSM Gateway

This is a non-play event designed to help you ease into BDSM and explore our space in a safe, relaxed, no-pressure environment. No Membership Required.

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Saturday BIRTHDAY Dungeon Party
Mar
7

Saturday BIRTHDAY Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Shadows & Shutters
Mar
7

Shadows & Shutters

Shadows & Shutters is our monthly, non-play photography night at Deviance: a space to experiment, collaborate, and create striking images together. This is a Deviance members-only event and strictly non-play: we are here for art, consent, and community.

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Game Night in The Manor
Mar
9

Game Night in The Manor

Join us at Deviance Manor for a fun-filled Game Night! This is the perfect opportunity to relax, connect, and enjoy a variety of games in a warm, welcoming environment.

Whether you're a trivia buff, a card game enthusiast, or just looking for a casual night out with great company, there's something here for everyone.


View Event →
FemDom Friday Dungeon Party
Mar
13

FemDom Friday Dungeon Party

Leave the stress of your day behind and slide into a world where women rule the night. FemDom Fridays are for the Ladies and the submissives who love them. Female presenting tops and dominants, join us in the Dungeon for an evening of worship and admiration. Submissives? Come sink into glorious service and bask in unique energy.

Submissives... show up to show out.! Impressive our FemDoms with your best threads!

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Friday Play Party in The Manor
Mar
13

Friday Play Party in The Manor

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Dom, sub, S/switch Roundtables
Mar
14

Dom, sub, S/switch Roundtables

Join us for an afternoon of open discussion, shared experiences, and community connection at our Dominant, submissive, and S/switch Roundtables. These guided conversations provide a space for individuals to explore their roles, ask questions, and engage with others in a supportive and educational environment.

Whether you’re experienced or new to the lifestyle, these roundtables offer valuable insight and the opportunity to learn from diverse perspectives.

No Membership Required.

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Open Rope Collab
Mar
15

Open Rope Collab

Open Rope Lab at Deviance Tampa Bay: a monthly assisted practice + skill share for all skill levels, bodies, and humans. Bring your rope goals, troubleshoot ties, get guidance, and connect with community in a consent-first space. Every 3rd Sunday, 2–5 PM. Hosted by Stumpp.

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Dungeons & Dragons & Deviance
Mar
16

Dungeons & Dragons & Deviance

*NOTE: Please arrive by 8:15PM for check in, hard start time is 8:30PM

Roll for initiative and pull up a chair — Deviance is kicking off a new kind of gathering: D&D&D. This is our take on a classic game night, where we trade floggers for fantasy and explore the worlds of dice, dragons, and imagination together.

Get Tickets Here!

What to Expect

  • One-shot D&D campaigns run by welcoming Dungeon Masters — no homework, no long commitments.

  • Beginner-friendly play with rules explained on the spot. Never rolled a d20 before? We’ve got you.

  • Casual, social atmosphere — a chance to meet fellow nerds, kinksters, and community members in a relaxed setting.

  • Snacks and drinks welcome (non-alcoholic).

What to Bring

  • Dice, if you have them (we’ll have extras).

  • A sense of adventure.

  • Street-legal attire (this is a clothed event).

Notes

  • This is strictly a tabletop game night — no kink play for this one. We’ll keep that twist in our back pocket for the future.

  • This event is open to everyone, no membership required. (18+).

  • Seating is limited, so RSVP early to secure your spot at the table.

Tickets / Entry: Single Tickets: $10

Bring a friend: $15

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Friday Deviance Dungeon Party
Mar
20

Friday Deviance Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Deviance Big Screen Night
Mar
22

Deviance Big Screen Night

Slip into your favorite PJs and settle into The Manor, where we’ll lay out floor mats for comfy seating. Bring what makes you cozy—blankets, cushions, pillows, stuffies—and build your perfect little nest. We’re keeping the movie a surprise; come for the community vibes and the popcorn aroma drifting in from the lobby.

Click here for tickets!

Concessions: The lobby stand will have fresh popcorn, non-alcoholic drinks, and snacks at accessible prices.

Dress Code Pajamas and comfy wear encouraged; street wear is fine. Nudity is not allowed at this event.

This is a non-play event. No membership required.

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Friday Deviance Dungeon Party
Mar
27

Friday Deviance Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Deviance FemDom Academy
Mar
28

Deviance FemDom Academy

A FULL DAY OF POWER, CONNECTION, AND GROWTH

Join us for a transformative day designed exclusively for FemDoms, - meaning ALL female presenting human Dominants, switches in Top space, and aspiring dominants. The Deviance FemDom Academy delivers high-quality workshops, and community connection in a nurturing, consent-based, and affirming environment.

Your Ticket Includes:
✨ Breakfast Meet & Greet and Lunch & Learn
🎓 Classes & Skill-Building Workshops All Day
🔗 Free One-Month Deviance Membership (if you’re not already a member)
🎉 Entry to the FemDom Saturday Play Party that evening

🛑 SPACE IS LIMITED

We’re capping attendance to maintain intimacy and quality. This is a femme-forward, kink-positive event. The Hes and Theys are welcome to attend, support, and serve, but this day is for the FemDoms.

Reserve your spot today

💼 WANT TO PRESENT A CLASS?

We’re looking for bold, insightful, and skilled FemDom educators to share their knowledge. Whether your expertise is in psychological play, protocol, physical dominance, or empowerment — we want to hear from you.

📥 Apply to present here

🖤 SERVICE-ORIENTED SUBMISSIVES WANTED

We welcome submissive volunteers of all genders who are service-minded and respectful of Femme authority to assist during the event. Roles include food & beverage service, cleaning crew, directional support, and workshop assistant. Fetish-friendly uniforms encouraged.

📥 Apply to serve here

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Saturday Dungeon Party
Mar
28

Saturday Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, the Manor provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.

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BDSM Gateway
Apr
3

BDSM Gateway

This is a non-play event designed to help you ease into BDSM and explore our space in a safe, relaxed, no-pressure environment. No Membership Required.

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Saturday Dungeon Party
Jan
31

Saturday Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, the Manor provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.

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Friday Deviance Dungeon Party
Jan
30

Friday Deviance Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Deviance Big Screen Night
Jan
25

Deviance Big Screen Night

Slip into your favorite PJs and settle into The Manor, where we’ll lay out floor mats for comfy seating. Bring what makes you cozy—blankets, cushions, pillows, stuffies—and build your perfect little nest. We’re keeping the movie a surprise; come for the community vibes and the popcorn aroma drifting in from the lobby.

Click here for tickets!

Concessions: The lobby stand will have fresh popcorn, non-alcoholic drinks, and snacks at accessible prices.

Dress Code Pajamas and comfy wear encouraged; street wear is fine. Nudity is not allowed at this event.

This is a non-play event. No membership required.

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Saturday Dungeon Party
Jan
24

Saturday Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, the Manor provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.

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Friday Deviance Dungeon Party
Jan
23

Friday Deviance Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Dungeons & Dragons & Deviance
Jan
19

Dungeons & Dragons & Deviance

*NOTE: Please arrive by 8:15PM for check in, hard start time is 8:30PM

Roll for initiative and pull up a chair — Deviance is kicking off a new kind of gathering: D&D&D. This is our take on a classic game night, where we trade floggers for fantasy and explore the worlds of dice, dragons, and imagination together.

Get Tickets Here!

What to Expect

  • One-shot D&D campaigns run by welcoming Dungeon Masters — no homework, no long commitments.

  • Beginner-friendly play with rules explained on the spot. Never rolled a d20 before? We’ve got you.

  • Casual, social atmosphere — a chance to meet fellow nerds, kinksters, and community members in a relaxed setting.

  • Snacks and drinks welcome (non-alcoholic).

What to Bring

  • Dice, if you have them (we’ll have extras).

  • A sense of adventure.

  • Street-legal attire (this is a clothed event).

Notes

  • This is strictly a tabletop game night — no kink play for this one. We’ll keep that twist in our back pocket for the future.

  • This event is open to everyone, no membership required. (18+).

  • Seating is limited, so RSVP early to secure your spot at the table.

Tickets / Entry: Single Tickets: $10

Bring a friend: $15

View Event →
Open Rope Collab
Jan
18

Open Rope Collab

Open Rope Collab at Deviance Tampa Bay: a monthly assisted practice + skill share for all skill levels, bodies, and humans. Bring your rope goals, troubleshoot ties, get guidance, and connect with community in a consent-first space. Every 3rd Sunday, 2–5 PM. Hosted by Stumpp.

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Deviance Academy - Collective Action: Civic Engagement & Building Power
Jan
17

Deviance Academy - Collective Action: Civic Engagement & Building Power

🎓 Welcome to Deviance Academy 🎓

Every month we bring you a new opportunity to learn, explore, and grow in your kink journey. Different presenters. Different topics. Always something to spark curiosity, expand your skills, and deepen your connections.

Special Event! Current Events have moved this topic to the front of the line!

Collective Action: Civic Engagement & Building Power

This interactive class will explore how the values many in the BDSM community already practice—consent, negotiation, trust, accountability, and power dynamics—translate into effective civic engagement and grassroots organizing. Participants will examine how people power is built, how movements grow from the margins, and why LGBTQ+ rights and bodily autonomy are deeply connected to political participation.

Using real-world examples from LGBTQ and social justice movements, the class will cover the basics of civic engagement, community organizing, and collective action, with a focus on how stigmatized communities protect themselves while building influence. We’ll discuss strategies for engaging elected officials, mobilizing networks, and showing up politically without compromising personal or community safety.

This class is designed for people interested in turning shared values into collective power—and in shaping a world where consent, dignity, and liberation are reflected not just in our scenes, but in our laws and communities.

About Our Presenter: Anita Carson

Anita Carson is the Director of Field and Community Organizing for Equality Florida. She joined the organization in 2022 after working as an educator and labor organizer. Anita oversees Equality Florida’s largest department, leading Field Managers, Community Organizers, and Fellows across the state. Her work focuses on building strong grassroots infrastructure, developing community leadership, and strengthening political power within LGBTQ communities through intersectional, community-led organizing.

No membership required.
Must be 18+ to attend and bring a valid government-issued photo ID with a date of birth on it. Digital representations will not be accepted. Attendees will be screened through the USDOJ national database of registered sex offenders.

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Friday Deviance Dungeon Party
Jan
16

Friday Deviance Dungeon Party

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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Game Night in The Manor
Jan
12

Game Night in The Manor

Join us at Deviance Manor for a fun-filled Game Night! This is the perfect opportunity to relax, connect, and enjoy a variety of games in a warm, welcoming environment.

Whether you're a trivia buff, a card game enthusiast, or just looking for a casual night out with great company, there's something here for everyone.


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A Deviance Rope Jam!
Jan
11

A Deviance Rope Jam!

What is a Rope Jam you ask? It's an open, welcoming gathering designed for rope enthusiasts of all levels. Whether you’re brand-new to Shibari or an experienced rigger looking to connect with others, it is where you will find collaboration, curiosity, and community.

Join us for an afternoon of knots, knowledge, creativity, and connection.
Let the rope guide you. Let the community hold you.

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Quarterly Deviance Member Town Hall
Jan
11

Quarterly Deviance Member Town Hall

Join us for our Quarterly Town Hall—held every 2nd Sunday of the quarter. Get updates, share your voice, and connect with the community.

✨ Members in good standing only
☕ Refreshments provided

Your input shapes Deviance—be there.

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The Suck Buffet
Jan
10

The Suck Buffet

This class sucks. For the bottom, that is. 

In this class you will learn: 

  • How to tie two of our presenters’ go-to torture rope techniques, a compression tie and a cinching cuff. 

  • A partial suspension sequence with some examples of how those tools can be applied safely to put your bottom in a considerable amount of pain from multiple places at once.

Truly a suck buffet.

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Dom, sub, S/switch Roundtables
Jan
10

Dom, sub, S/switch Roundtables

Join us for an afternoon of open discussion, shared experiences, and community connection at our Dominant, submissive, and S/switch Roundtables. These guided conversations provide a space for individuals to explore their roles, ask questions, and engage with others in a supportive and educational environment.

Whether you’re experienced or new to the lifestyle, these roundtables offer valuable insight and the opportunity to learn from diverse perspectives.

No Membership Required.

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Friday Play Party in The Manor
Jan
9

Friday Play Party in The Manor

Whether you’re here to witness the artistry of domination, engage in a scene, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, Deviance provides a safe and welcoming atmosphere. Let’s create a night to remember.


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FemDom Friday Dungeon Party
Jan
9

FemDom Friday Dungeon Party

Leave the stress of your day behind and slide into a world where women rule the night. FemDom Fridays are for the Ladies and the submissives who love them. Female presenting tops and dominants, join us in the Dungeon for an evening of worship and admiration. Submissives? Come sink into glorious service and bask in unique energy.

Submissives... show up to show out.! Impressive our FemDoms with your best threads!

View Event →
Central Florida Transgender Support Meet Up
Jan
8

Central Florida Transgender Support Meet Up

This is a FREE non-play support meet up. No Membership Required (donations to Deviance Tampa Bay are appreciated)

18+ | Valid ID Required

Deviance Tampa Bay warmly welcomes:

Our monthly Central Florida Transgender Support meet up, hosted by Cami_da_fae at Deviance!

All flavors welcome! NB, GF, MTF, FTM, and any we may have missed mentioning. The goal of this group is to provide a safe place where we can meet and share some positive stories and news, as well as talk about ways to keep ourselves safe in this world of rising transphobia and fear mongering.

We'll provide some light refreshments, but we encourage you to bring potluck style dishes to share as well.

View Event →
Stone Soup Munch
Jan
7

Stone Soup Munch

Start the Month off Right with the Stone Soup Munch at Deviance! This is a non-play event designed to help you ease into the new month and explore our space in a safe, relaxed, no-pressure environment. No Membership Required.

View Event →
Shadows & Shutters
Jan
3

Shadows & Shutters

Shadows & Shutters is our monthly, non-play photography night at Deviance: a space to experiment, collaborate, and create striking images together. This is a Deviance members-only event and strictly non-play: we are here for art, consent, and community.

View Event →